Hi Sue, there's some great tips in this post so thank you for sharing them! You know that I do understand how life can get too hard. I've been hit with one thing after another for years now actually. But I had a pretty cruisy life before that - no major traumas. This is my time to be tested I think and boy am I being tested. I don't know all the specifics of what you're dealing with right now but I do know that you're resilient and strong and will keep yourself afloat and thinking positively. We all need to withdraw and curl into ourselves now and then. I know I do. We need to do that to recharge so we can use our resilience. I'm always here for you if you need me. I'm not far away. We could always meet for a coffee and cheer each other up! In the meantime - here's a big squishy virtual HUG. Thanks for being open and honest and still sharing tips and positivity with us at #WWWhimsy ! xo
Thank you, Min for your support which I truly appreciate especially with all you have going on in your life at the moment. I'm feeling better each day after taking some time to rearrange my schedule and cut back for a while. Thank you for your big squishy virtual HUG, it made me smile! Have a lovely day xx
"Do you feel overwhelmed by the endless advice on how to “bounce back”? Social media often shows glossy highlight reels that can make us feel like we’re falling short. But deep down, don’t you already know what your soul needs?" Yep and I want to say once you've walked a mile in my shoes then we can talk about it . We are bombarded 'how to lose weight' Nuts are bad for you. How to cure wrinkes if you pay me xyz. Or ked rid of your double chin in just 30 days yoga class. All scams.
This as really been bothering me, lately, Carole. So many posts about do this and don’t do that I just scroll through. I know people may have experience of want to help, I’m like that, but the older i get the more I am relying on my own experience and intuition. x
Thank you for sharing your tips for negotiating the ‘down’ points on the rollercoaster of life. We all have them and deal with them in different ways but knowing that this is a normal part of life is the most important point. Sending love and good wishes as you negotiate this time.
Thank you for your good wishes and love, Janine. It always helps to know others are there to support even if you only communicate online. Have a beautiful day. Sue L xx
Thank you, my friend. I've not been a great friend lately as I've had to just retreat for a while. I will be back though. You inspire me to do better. xx
In my experience we women who care for & about so much carry this until it’s too challenging and we acknowledge we need rest & acceptance of how things are. I got a lesson in that yesterday with not being able to attend an appointment because my body said “no”…. listening to it more now. Xx
When we can say 'no' because we just can't take on anymore is so liberating isn't it, Denyse? You are really doing what is right for you in that moment. The world didn't end because you had to reschedule your appointment and you took care of yourself which is a priority. Hope you are okay today and sending hugs to you. Sue L xx
Hi Sue, there's some great tips in this post so thank you for sharing them! You know that I do understand how life can get too hard. I've been hit with one thing after another for years now actually. But I had a pretty cruisy life before that - no major traumas. This is my time to be tested I think and boy am I being tested. I don't know all the specifics of what you're dealing with right now but I do know that you're resilient and strong and will keep yourself afloat and thinking positively. We all need to withdraw and curl into ourselves now and then. I know I do. We need to do that to recharge so we can use our resilience. I'm always here for you if you need me. I'm not far away. We could always meet for a coffee and cheer each other up! In the meantime - here's a big squishy virtual HUG. Thanks for being open and honest and still sharing tips and positivity with us at #WWWhimsy ! xo
Thank you, Min for your support which I truly appreciate especially with all you have going on in your life at the moment. I'm feeling better each day after taking some time to rearrange my schedule and cut back for a while. Thank you for your big squishy virtual HUG, it made me smile! Have a lovely day xx
I love that you added the things we're allowed to do. We need to give ourselves permission.
"Do you feel overwhelmed by the endless advice on how to “bounce back”? Social media often shows glossy highlight reels that can make us feel like we’re falling short. But deep down, don’t you already know what your soul needs?" Yep and I want to say once you've walked a mile in my shoes then we can talk about it . We are bombarded 'how to lose weight' Nuts are bad for you. How to cure wrinkes if you pay me xyz. Or ked rid of your double chin in just 30 days yoga class. All scams.
This as really been bothering me, lately, Carole. So many posts about do this and don’t do that I just scroll through. I know people may have experience of want to help, I’m like that, but the older i get the more I am relying on my own experience and intuition. x
Here’s to your resilience
Thank you, Ellen. Have a beautiful day xx
Thank you for sharing your tips for negotiating the ‘down’ points on the rollercoaster of life. We all have them and deal with them in different ways but knowing that this is a normal part of life is the most important point. Sending love and good wishes as you negotiate this time.
Thank you for your good wishes and love, Janine. It always helps to know others are there to support even if you only communicate online. Have a beautiful day. Sue L xx
You’ve said it all so well Sue!! Thanks for sharing your experiences.
We all go through these times, don't we Deb? It is always comforting to know that you have the support of friends who are there no matter what. x
Just the post I needed to read today...thanks so much.
I’m so sorry things have been a little rough for you, Barbara. I’m glad my post has helped you in a small way. Sending hugs to you, Sue xx
Oh I’m so pleased my post helped in a small way, Barbara. I’m sorry things have been a little rough for you. Take care, Sue xx
Thinking of you, Sue, and sending big hugs your way. Thank you for writing and publishing this. You remain a huge inspiration!
Thank you, my friend. I've not been a great friend lately as I've had to just retreat for a while. I will be back though. You inspire me to do better. xx
You are a wonderful friend. I am always here for you, anytime, day or night! <3
I understand this 💯.. take care & be kind to yourself. D x
I know you understand, Denyse and it is so comforting to know that others feel the same or understand. Have a lovely day and thank you. xx
In my experience we women who care for & about so much carry this until it’s too challenging and we acknowledge we need rest & acceptance of how things are. I got a lesson in that yesterday with not being able to attend an appointment because my body said “no”…. listening to it more now. Xx
When we can say 'no' because we just can't take on anymore is so liberating isn't it, Denyse? You are really doing what is right for you in that moment. The world didn't end because you had to reschedule your appointment and you took care of yourself which is a priority. Hope you are okay today and sending hugs to you. Sue L xx
Take care Sue... you know what they say, you need to look after yourself so you can look after others... or something like that...
Thanks, lovely Jo. Just doing what I can at the moment but reading lots! xx